Who we belong with.

I believe that when God created each and every one of us he also created that one person that he knew was the person we are to be with. But of course, lots of us tend to try and do things our own way and because of that usually end up with plenty of other people EXCEPT the one God is leading us to. And when things start going wrong we start thinking of things we could change about that person to make things better. And when that doesnt work, we end up in divorce. When the whole time that one person has been right there! Sometimes we are luck and eventually do make our way to finding that right person (like me) but sometimes we never do. I'm not saying that God wants everybdy to go and get divorced so they can find that right person!! That is not what I am saying at all. What I am saying is look for his voice. If we are silent and truely wanting to hear it, we will. And when we lay our own wants down and yield ourselves to him, then we will see that he will tell us exactly what it is that he wants us to do. EXACTLY!! Whether it be showing you how to fix your marriage (if you are married) or telling you what it is that you need to do to get to where you belong. I am also not saying that all relationships are mistakes and therefore your children from previous relationships are mistakes either!! God is always going to make the best come out of every situation we get ourselves into. EVERY situation, even the bad ones. Our children are a blessing from God, even though we are not worthy of anything good, he still continues to bless us. So if you currently find yourself in a bad relationship or alone, give it God, wait on God with an open heart and he will fill it. I'm not saying he will automatically send you somebody, he might not. But I am saying he will not only fill the void but he will overfill it!